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I work with a man named James. We have become friends over the past few weeks, and it's obvious there is an attraction between us. I would never want to break up a marriage, and I don't want to change our relationship. Is simply flirting with a married man -- who flirts back -- okay if neither of you has any intentions?


Leslie says...


If you don’t want to break up a marriage, then you won’t. If you sleep with that married man, then you wanted to. We are all adults. You know what you really want to happen between you and James, so for goodness sake, stop pretending. If he wanted to move beyond “simple flirting,” you know you wouldn’t oppose. Just be truthful about it and remember these karma essentials: the same bed we make is the one we have to lay in; our decisions don’t only affect us; and the bad choices we make today will come back to haunt us tomorrow. Only you can decide whether you’ll remain a woman of virtue and morals, or become a home-wrecking adulteress.