Holding Back in Ohio

I recently began dating this guy, "Don," I met a few months ago. For the most part, he's good to me. The problem is I have strong feelings for him, but I'm not sure he feels the same way. Don says he loves me, and he does treat me wonderfully -- something I've always wanted -- but I have this nagging feeling that "something" will go wrong. I don't know where this stems from. I feel myself starting to fall in love with him, but I don't know if I should because he has been married four times already. Please help me. I don't want to lose him.


Leslie says...

Have you ever heard the expression that hindsight is 20/20? A lot of times, we don't see things clearly until after we've made a bad decision or done something we regret. The same "signs" were always there; it's just for one reason or another, we don't notice them until after the damage has been done. This man has had four divorces. Four failed marriages. This is not something you should take lightly. Take the time to find out why four marriages have failed with him. Take the time to really get to know him.

Remember, that "nagging" feeling you have is probably your women's intuition. It's the common sense inside of you that many women fail to acknowledge, let alone abide by when it comes to men and relationships. Listen to it. (It's probably saying, don't be number 5!)