Richard in San Francisco

I need your input. Young women today are wearing low-rise pants, short tops and thong underwear. While my wife and I were dining at a restaurant the other night, a woman was sitting with her back to us. She kept leaning forward over the table to talk to her date, and when she did, her top went farther up and her pants crept down, exposing the top 3 inches of her posterior -- with all that implies. I didn't want to eat my dinner while looking at the great divide. My wife said to do nothing and not to look. Should I have tapped the woman on the shoulder and asked her not to bend over, or should I have asked the waiter to do something? Luckily, she and her date left before our main course was served. It's the second time this has happened. What do I do the third time?

Leslie says...

I agree with your wife - do nothing and STOP LOOKING! Women are never going to stop wearing clothes that expose their thongs or "great divides," and it is not feasible for you to ask waiters or restaurant managers to make these women cover up. So to keep your pressure from rising, you just need to stop looking, or ask to be moved to another table. It's not that serious.