Anonymous

I met a very kind man about two months ago. From then on, we saw each other twice a week at group get-togethers. He would always lead me away from the others, talking to me and flirting with me. He's very forward. He is always touching me, putting his arms around me -- and he asked me for my phone number the second time I saw him. We have still been hanging out, but I found out he has a girlfriend! He doesn't know that I know. When I pull back from his touching me, he asks me why. Is it possible that he doesn't have a girlfriend? Or is he just one of those guys who will flirt with anyone -- including me?

Leslie says...

Yes, it's possible he doesn't have a girlfriend, but it's also likely that he does. And there's only one way to find out - ask him. Next time you're together and he gets to feeling and touching on you, ask him if he's sure his girlfriend doesn't mind his behavior. And remember: if he will cheat on her, he will cheat on you.